FRIENDSHIP BETWEEN WOMEN

    What is friendship? It is a state of mutual trust and support between both sides. And if friendship between men is immortalized in legends, movies, songs and poems, female friendship does not seem to exist.

    Some people believe in it, some do not. Personally I can say that this friendship is similar to the story about the scorpion and the frog, one wants to bite another one, who wants to throw the first one away:

"A scorpion asks a frog to carry it across a river. The frog hesitates, afraid of being stung, but the scorpion argues that if it did so, they would both drown. Considering this, the frog agrees, but midway across the river the scorpion does indeed sting the frog, dooming them both. When the frog asks the scorpion why, the scorpion replies that it was in its nature to do so".

    Women are more sensitive and jealous than men, so that their friendship is more specific: only totally equal women can be friends. Married to married, beautiful to beautiful, rich to rich, in other cases the relationship will not be sincere. 

    The example from my life: I used to have a friend, we were almost the same level and everything was okay between us, then I entered a good university, lost 10 kg, found a good man (who takes care of me), and, guess what, my friend started hating me! She started saying that I am ugly, that my man will leave me, that my fake boobs will cause me cancer etc, now we stopped talking, because she just does not feel herself comfortable next to me, when she sees my new jewellery or dresses. 

    Same happens to friends if one of them gets married and another one stays single, because they become "competitors". Why competitors? One has a man and has to "protect" this man from single women, who are searching for grooms. 
    Female friends can be more cruel, married friends can troll their single friends, women who have richer husbands will always show off and insult poorer friends etc. Even if you gain 3 kilograms, your female friend will mention this. 
    How many stories you heard where women seduced their friends' husbands? A lot! Why? Just because of our female nature! We always want to be better than other women, even if these other women are our close friends. 
    We do not feel ourselves comfortable with younger and more beautiful women, otherwise there would not exist a term "ugly friend". You need an explanation? Okay, I would rather prefer to have an ugly friend than to have a friend who works as a model in Milan :) 
    You can spend your free time with your friends, go on shopping, drink coffee and communicate, but never share your secrets - this is the lesson I got: I know 2 girls, they are best friends, one was married and one single. The married girl used to tell the single one about all problems with her husband (like he forgot about her birthday, came home drunk and so on), and - guess what? The single one started writing to the husband of her friend, told him that his wife tells everyone that he is bad. Obviously they had a scandal and divorced soon after that. 
    Sometimes our friends tell us that we gained weight, that we have small boobs, big nose, they say all this to decrease our self-confidence, so that we do not find a good man etc. 
    And what if both of you have same taste in men? You will become enemies. 
    Of course, if you are honest educated people, you can be good loyal friends for years, but better be aware :)
    So, girls, enjoy your friendship, enjoy your female friends, but do not forget that even relatives can betray us, so do not open the whole heart for your friend because nobody is perfect in this world.